The Libra Personality, The Sign of the Scales
Sep 24rd to Oct 23nd
Sophisticated, Sociable, Popular, Diplomatic, Adaptive, Aggressive, Rational, Seductive, Attractive, Sensual, Cooperative, Romantic, Analytical, Optimistic Cheerful, Sensitive, Gracious, Sociable, Tactful, Cooperative, and Diplomatic.
Areas to Evolve
Self-Doubting, Narcissistic, Vanity, Argumentative, Emotionally Detached, Protective, Controlling, Manipulative, Self-Indulgence, Holding a Grudge, Ambivalent, Multiple Relationships, Impatient, Sulks, and flirty.
You’re romantic and charming, sociable and enjoy a good time! You’re a slight perfectionist who can be a bit bossy at times. Some say you can be a bit of a narcissist. You love to be in a position of public service and it works well because you desire to be popular. You love to dress up for the occasion and get a bit set off if those around you are sloppy. You don’t like to be pressured or rushed, instead you like to plan ahead and keep everything on an even balance. You love attention, a good debate, and intelligent conversations. You don’t take criticism very well. Libra always looks to keep the balance or restore it when it’s lost.
The universe has blessed you with a soul that is charming and elegant. You speak well and you have an air of class around you. You are usually attractive, graceful, and all people generally and sincerely admire you. You represent balance, fairness, and cooperation, especially as those roles come into play with relationships.
You are a cerebral sign, but unlike the mentally all-over-the-place Aquarian and the psychically all-over-the-place Gemini, you are the air sign of balance and harmony. You have a natural curiosity with people and especially their relationships. You secretly evaluate and “score” what, how, and when people do things. You are not nosy, you are just being prepared for the day someone may ask your opinion. And being prepared for you means you have already calculated the path of destiny with the best outcome.
And when they do ask, they will most likely hear the only correct answer that exists in the universe. Even if that answer is not a popular or pleasant one, you will find a way to present it gracefully and with some options for them to consider. Inner peace and harmony is your ultimate goal, not only for your own relationships, but the rest of the world too.
Libra is a true romantic when it comes to personal relationships. You believe in everything that appears in the movies, including soul mates and magical happy endings. You are not needy and are willing to hold out for the perfect partner, after all perfection is something you aspire to. No other gives more and ask so little in return than a Libra when it comes to exchanges of romance and love.
Under the universal laws of Yin-Yang balance, Libras have difficulty with anger management. More often than not, they suppress anger and allow it to fester for years. Libra anger is more a form of frustration than an emotional outburst a Cancer may have, and usually initiated because their point of view or measurement of balance is not getting through.
Anything deemed “unfair” is subject to Libra anger outbursts, especially when you find yourself under stress.Seek spiritual wisdom that allows you help others achieve balance and vent off your anger. If left unchecked, Libra anger often grows into relational manipulations. It will be easier for other signs to communicate with you if you can apologize better, or maybe even first.
As a Libra, peace and harmony so important to you that you will even compromise your own personality to make peace with others. Even if you should say no, you say yes. Eventually it all piles up and your temper shows up. Once you’ve released a little pressure, you quickly put a stop to it because you’d rather see your world returned to harmony as quickly as possible. It’s a shock to everyone around them when a Libra explodes into a sudden rage. Libras tend to hold back their feelings until they can’t anymore and then explode with a rage that’s always a surprise to anyone around because they’re so used to Libra being the calm and rational one.
Libra anger appears when it seems like their well thought out points of view are not being heard. Unlike a Scorpio that “stings” when they are angry, Libra’s have a hot button of volcanic anger that stays with them for life. Push that button, and you can hear in great detail related events of the past associated with the anger of the day. Learn to see the warning signs of Libra feeling like they are not being heard and you can avoid a confrontation. If you’re a Libra, you have to realize the rest of the world doesn’t have you ability of reasoning and efficient decision making. The point you wish to make will come across better if you try to calmly be patient and wait for the opportunity when the person you are communicating with is listening better.